Welcome to the month of May!
This month we are going to take a deeper look at what God’s word has to say about How to Identify your spiritual gifts so that we may discover how to use them more confidently and faithfully to serve others and glorify God in our everyday lives.
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Have you ever thought and asked yourself, what is my spiritual gift? What does the Bible say about spiritual gifts, and why is it important to identify your spiritual gift?
When you know who God has shaped you to be, then you know who you ought to be, and you can start focusing on how to make better use of your life.
The moment you step across the line spiritually and begin following Jesus, you say, “I’m going to go God’s way, not my own way. I’m going to let him direct my life. I want to follow God’s purpose, not my purpose. I’m going to do what I was wired and made to do.”
The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 12:4-6, “There are different spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit gives them. There are different ways of serving, and yet the same Lord is served. There are different types of work to do, but the same God produces every gift in every person” (GW).
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What Are Spiritual Gift?
Spiritual gifts are just that, gifts. They are given freely, not based on your merit or talents. The Holy Spirit is the One giving for God’s purposes. This means your gifts to be used for God’s purposes.
This may not be what you are good at or the things that are comfortable. It is often the case that God uses those who can’t but are willing over those who can but whose hearts are not with God.
God has a purpose for your life, and your spiritual gifts are the equipment he gives you to do what he asks you to do. God will never ask you to do something he doesn’t give you the ability to do. God gives you your spiritual gifts the moment you accept Christ. You don’t get to choose your gifts, and you don’t earn your gifts.
Your gifts also are not for your benefit. Your spiritual gifts allow you to help other people. And other people can use their gifts to help you.
The New Testament periodically mentions gifts that have been given to us as Christians. In Romans 12:6–8, for example, Paul writes: “According to the grace given to us, we have different gifts…
”Paul encourage us to use these gifts. Peter similarly writes: “Just as each one has received a gift, use it to serve others, as good stewards of the varied grace of God” (1 Peter 4:10).
Spiritual gifts are blessings or abilities given by God to His children through the power of the Holy Ghost. Gifts of the Spirit are given to bless and benefit those who love the Lord and seek to keep His commandments.
Spiritual gifts are special abilities given by the Holy Spirit to believers for the purpose of serving God, strengthening the church, and helping others. The Bible teaches that every believer has a place in the body of Christ, and spiritual gifts enable Christians to fulfill the work God has called them to do. These gifts are not given for personal recognition or status, but to glorify God and build up His people.
The Bible discusses spiritual gifts in several passages, including Romans 12:6–8, 1 Corinthians 12:4–11, Ephesians 4:11–13, and 1 Peter 4:10–11. Some gifts mentioned include wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, prophecy, teaching, serving, encouragement, giving, leadership, mercy, discernment, and speaking in tongues. Although believers may receive different gifts, they all come from the same Holy Spirit.
1 Corinthians 12 compares believers to one body with many parts. Every part is important and has a different function. In the same way, Christians should not compare their gifts with the gifts of others. Instead, they should faithfully use what God has given them. No spiritual gift is insignificant when it is surrendered to God.
Love is also essential in the use of spiritual gifts. First Corinthians 13 teaches that even extraordinary spiritual abilities accomplish little when they are exercised without love. Therefore, spiritual gifts should be used with humility, compassion, wisdom, and a desire to serve.
Believers can discover their spiritual gifts through prayer, studying Scripture, serving others, listening to godly counsel, and paying attention to areas where God consistently works through them. As Christians grow in their relationship with Jesus, they can become more effective in using their gifts.
Ultimately, spiritual gifts demonstrate God’s grace working through His people. When believers faithfully use their gifts together, the church is strengthened, people are encouraged, needs are met, and God receives the glory.
How to Recognize Your Spiritual Gifts
Recognizing your spiritual gifts is an important part of discovering how God desires to use you for His glory and the benefit of others. Spiritual gifts are special abilities given by the Holy Spirit to believers according to God’s purpose. They are not given to make us feel more important than others, but to strengthen the Body of Christ, serve people, and advance God’s Kingdom.
Begin by spending time in prayer and asking God to reveal the gifts He has placed within you. Study Scriptures such as Romans 12:6–8, 1 Corinthians 12:4–11, and Ephesians 4:11–13. As you read, pay attention to the gifts that seem to connect deeply with your heart.
Consider the areas where serving God brings you joy, fulfillment, and a strong sense of purpose. Notice what others consistently recognize in you. Perhaps you naturally encourage people, teach God’s Word, demonstrate compassion, lead, serve, give generously, or offer wisdom during difficult situations. These patterns may provide clues to your spiritual gifts.
Most importantly, remain humble and available to God. Spiritual gifts become clearer as you faithfully serve. Trust the Holy Spirit to guide you, develop your gifts, and show you opportunities to use them to bless others and glorify Jesus.
1 Corinthians 12:4-11 says, Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empower them all in everyone. To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues. All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.
The Holy Spirit gives spiritual gifts to each of us. He “apportions” them according to his perfect wisdom. No matter what gift a person has, all spiritual gifts are distributed by the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit decides which gifts each believer should have. We are responsible for using and sharpening our gifts. As we seek to identify and utilize the gifts God has given us, we should make loving God and loving others our highest priority.
Whether you’ve been given the gift of wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy, discernment of spirits, tongues, or interpretation of tongues, your purpose in the gift is to be the same as the Holy Spirit’s: love.
All these various gifts are inspired by the same Spirit who individually works in every person as Holy Spirit desires. (1 Cor. 14:1)
Spiritual gifts are all about love. Operating in a gift of the Spirit is always to be done in love. Paul is clear that gifts are annoying (1 Corinthians 13:1) and worthless (1 Corinthians 13:2-3) if they are not filled with love.
As each one has received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God. 11 If anyone speaks, let him speak as the [a]oracles of God. If anyone ministers, let him do it as with the ability which God supplies, that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belong the glory and the [b]dominion forever and ever. Amen. 1 Peter 4:10-11. (NKJV)
Spend time in prayer discovering what gift the Holy Spirit has given you and how he would intend you to use it for the benefit of the “common good.” Choose to align your understanding and belief on spiritual gifts with the word of God alone. And live today operating in love with the amazing gifts God has given you, whatever they may be.
But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to every man to profit withal. 1 Corinthians 12:7
These gifts might include teaching, encouraging, serving, or showing mercy, and they’re designed to help us strengthen the body of Christ.
If you are unsure what your gifts are, ask God to reveal them to you through prayer and reflection on His Word. As you step out in faith, He will guide you to see where your strengths align with His calling for your life. Our gifts are part of God’s big plan. (Ephesians 4:11-16)
God chose the gift to give you as part of a greater plan of redemption. How many of us are wondering how God wants to use us? Or trying to figure out our purposes or callings by God? If you long to be used by God, seek to figure out your spiritual gift. He’s literally equipped each of us with a gift to do His work. Maybe the frustration we feel comes when we try to mimic what God called someone else with a different gift to do.
Not only are we individually handcrafted, but every single Christian is blessed with several spiritual gifts from God for the purposes of ministry and to be used within the body of Christ. Every believer receives these gifts when they accept Jesus Christ as their personal savior. At salvation, not only are you gifted with the gift of salvation and grace, but also with spiritual gifts. We will always have the same two or three spiritual gifts our entire Christian lifetime. They can be nurtured and grown as we use them in ministry, but they will not come and go.
You have been gifted my friend. Don’t wait for God to ask you to use it in some big, flashy way to feel like, “This is it! This is my calling!”. Just open your heart and eyes to the needs around you. Does the need require someone with your gift(s)? Then pray about jumping in and building your spiritual muscle. Trust God’s admonition that faithfulness and obedience matter. Your willingness to exercise your gift in a small way today may be the beginning to God opening the door to bigger things tomorrow.
“Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man’s gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve, if it is teaching, let him teach, if it is encouraging, let him encourage, if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously, if it is leadership, let him govern diligently, if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.” Romans 12:4-8
If you want to know more about spiritual gifts, I recommend you check out the following books:
- Ministering Through Spiritual Gifts by Charles F. Stanley
- Discovering Your Spiritual Gifts by C. Peter Wagner
- Releasing Spiritual Gifts Today by James W Goll
- What’s So Spiritual About Your Gifts? by Henry and Mel Blackaby
Finding and Using Your Gifts
The most practical way to identify your gifts is to serve and pay attention. Try different roles in your church and notice where God seems to show up in your efforts. Then ask the people who know you well what they observe. Trusted mentors, close friends, and your spouse often see gifts in you that you cannot see in yourself. Seek their discernment and take it seriously.
Once you have a sense of where God has gifted you, put it to work. Keep studying Bible verses about gifts as you go. The more clearly you understand what Scripture says about spiritual gifts, the more confidently you will use what God has given you.
Paul told the Corinthians they lacked nothing when it came to spiritual gifts (1 Corinthians 1:6–7). That same confidence belongs to every believer. You have been given what you need. The question is whether you are using it.
How Do I Know Which Spiritual Gifts I Have?
You may already have an idea of what spiritual gifts you have been given. You gravitate toward different roles in church or in your occupation based on how you are gifted, how you are uniquely wired by God.
Living out our spiritual gifts isn’t always easy. There are times when we might doubt our abilities or wonder if we’re truly making an impact.
Fear, comparison, and busyness can all keep us from fully using the gifts God has given us. But remember, God doesn’t ask for perfection, He simply asks for a willing heart.
He promises that His power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). So even if you feel unsure, trust that God is working through you as you serve.
Living out your spiritual gifts is about being faithful to use what God has entrusted to you. Whether it’s through encouraging a friend, teaching a Bible study, or serving in a ministry, your gifts are a reflection of God’s grace in action.
My prayer for you is that you know just how much you are loved by God, and as a believer, you will proclaim His excellence as you use your gifts to serve others and glorify Him. To serve is to honor God, and I challenge you today to use your gifts to give to others as you have been given.
1 Peter 4:10 (NKJV) “As each one has received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”
As you continue to use them, you’ll experience the joy of being a part of something bigger than yourself—God’s plan to build His Kingdom.
Keep seeking His guidance, and step into the opportunities He brings your way with confidence and trust.
Reflection Questions:
- What gifts or abilities has God placed in my life that I can use to serve others?
- What activities make me feel spiritually fulfilled, joyful, and connected to God’s purpose?
- How have other people recognized or affirmed spiritual gifts in me?
- In what areas of ministry or service do I feel God leading me to become more involved?
- How can I pray, study Scripture, and seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance to better understand and use my spiritual gifts?
A Prayer for May
Father, I know that the Bible tells us that we all receive gifts from You. Help me to use them faithfully for Your glory and to bless others, trusting that You will guide me every step of the way. Father, I thank You that You are the source of all goodness and the giver of every perfect gift. I beseech You today to activate within me the gifts of the Holy Spirit that I may bear witness to Your love and bring glory to Your name. Use me as a vessel of Your grace to bring light to the darkness and proclaim Your Gospel to the nations. I ask for the gift of wisdom, so that I may discern Your will in all circumstances. Enable me to grasp the mysteries of faith and share them with others, that they too may come to know You. I ask for the gift of faith so that I may believe in the impossible and witness Your miraculous power at work… Help me to fully trust in Your promises, even when I face trials and difficulties. I ask for the gift of healing, that through me, You may bring comfort and complete restoration to those who are suffering. Use me as an instrument of Your compassion and mercy, that others may experience Your love and power in their afflictions. I ask for the gift of prophecy, that I may discern Your voice and share Your messages with courage and humility. May your words bring encouragement, conviction, and transformation to those who hear them. I ask for the gift of tongues, that I may pray and worship You in the spirit. Help me to yield myself to the promptings of the Holy Spirit and pray according to Your perfect will. Father, I ask for the gift of discernment, that I may recognize the movement of Your Spirit in my life and distinguish between truth and deception. Grant me the ability to make wise choices guided by Your truth. I pray all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus. Amen.
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